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Judge Sodergren captures the flavors and memories of the Mid-Century Midwest in his debut book.


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If you’re of a certain age – say, 60 and above – reading Tom Sodergren’s book about coming of age in the Midwest in the 50s, 60s, and 70s is a walk down memory lane. However, younger readers still can enjoy a fun and humorous recollection of Sodergren’s formative years growing up as a “child of a child of the depression.”

The book, “Blissfully Unremarkable,” so titled because Sodergren characterizes his family as “ordinary and happy,” shares stories of what Sodergren humbly describes as his typical Midwestern family and upbringing. The book is largely autobiographical and takes readers on a “humorous culinary and cultural romp through the midcentury heartland.”

Divided into two sections titled “When I Was Fed” and “When I Fed Myself,” Sodergren’s work centers around food, family, and travel, noting how folks who grew up during the Great Depression continued to scrimp, save, and lead simple lives.

The book’s subtitle, “A Taste of the Mid-Century Heartland, from Hot Dish to Cold Oleo,” refers to Midwestern staples from the mid-20th century. The hot dish, or casserole, was shared among family and friends and came to embody the practicality and camaraderie of the time. The cold oleo, or margarine, refers to what Sodergren calls his mom’s “laziest, cheapest snack,” spreading cold pats of oleo on white bread and then sprinkling it with sugar.  

"It was like eating sweet sand," Sodergren recalls.

Sodergren shares other food customs designed to stretch the family budget. His mom always cut ground beef with cereal filler and watered down lemonade and grape juice to make the drinks last longer. Chili, too, was always a rather tasteless meal, as spices were considered an unnecessary expense.

Childhood anecdotes throughout the book depict the leisure, travel, and food of a typical small Midwestern town. Sodergren recalls how his family skipped movie theaters, piling into one car for the drive-in with a grocery sack of homemade popcorn.

One area where Sodergren's mother sometimes relaxed her frugality was with the family’s clothing. As such, the book’s cover sports a photo of a four-year-old Tom Sodergren and his older brother, Scott, sporting spiffy outfits and shiny new cowboy boots, a rare splurge for the Sodergrens.

Sodergren spent 24 years as a judge of Missouri’s 19th Circuit Court in Jefferson City before he took senior judge status in 2019. It was while Sodergren was studying English Education at the University of Missouri that the notion of becoming a writer first took root. But it wasn’t until about 50 years later, when Sodergren was having lunch with friends, that the idea grew legs.

“We got to talking about some of our memories of what it was like growing up with parents who grew up during the Depression and foisted all of those instincts and lessons on us,” Sodergren says. The tales evoked laughs from the older men present, but were lost on a younger gentleman who found them hard to believe. That was the catalyst for what eventually became Sodergren’s first published work. 

Sodergren wrote the book entirely in longhand on legal pads over the course of about a year. He kept a notebook next to his bed to capture thoughts as they came to him. An uncle familiar with the publishing world and a daughter who assisted with editing and photo selection helped get Sodergren’s stories packaged into a memoir.

Sodergren is toying with the idea of writing a second book that would recap his 25 years on the judicial bench. But for now, he is content with the remembrance that he has created for his family and friends.

“Some day I hope my granddaughter will pick it up and read it and look at my daughter and say, ‘You mean people really lived without air conditioning and colored TV?’” Sodergren says.

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Tom Sodergren's memoir, "Blissfully Unremarkable," can be purchased on Amazon and on Barnes & Noble's online store.